Ground zero
- Nene Sterling-LS
- Jun 24, 2023
- 1 min read
Lagos October 1999...

Pele was renting a room from his friend who was renting the two bedroom boy's quarters to a house.Ā He had a single mattress on the floor, and the toilet was located outside the room, in the compoundš³. As in, outside outside toiletššæāāļø.
As an ajekpako, I would wake him up in the middle of the night to escort me to the toilet outside in the wilderness š.Ā
You know, as a young lady, I was surrounded by aunties who were married to wealthy menš¤. I listened to their discussions at the kitchen table. Their situationship did not leave a good impression on me. So my one wish to God, was to start from scratch with the man I would choose to marry.
Thats how I found myself sleeping on the mattress on the floor. We have always been compatible in a strange way. Extremely tolerant of each other.
Anyway Pele proposed that same weekend, down on one knee, with the ring pull from a can of coke š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£. Ofcourse I said yes. We got married the following year, 29 April 2000.
Starting from ground zero.
The rest is historyš.
Yes I would do it again.
Now, look at you, 23 years after!šš½šš½š Happy Anniversary! ā¤ļøā¤ļø